Traditional wedding of the White Yao people

Having a son coming of age, a White Yao family begins selecting a wife for him among the White Yao young girls in the same hamlet or one nearby. A sweetheart chosen, they send a word to her family. If that night is quiet, without owls crying or unusual cocks cooing, it’s a favorable omen meaning the future will be smooth, and the girl’s family would agree.On a good day, the groom’s party brings lavish offerings, including two castrated cocks, a 30kg pig, 10 liters of rice wine and a certain amount of money etc. to the bride’s to have a feast together and to fix a favorable date.On the fixed date, they conduct a wedding with many traditional ceremonies. The wedding normally lasts three days and two nights.This photo set was taken at a White Yao wedding at Lang Son. Some of the rituals have been modified to suit modern life.It begins when the bridegroom’s family sends 11 people in traditional outfits to receive the bride. The delegation includes a master of ceremony, the bridegroom, and young men versed in repartee singing.They bring offerings, including a silver bracelet, betel and areca, salt, tea, rice buns, two large bundles of cassava vermicelli, rice wine, eight origami fishes representing the multitude of descendants the young couple will have, and a pipe containing ash and 24 leaves which guarantees good fortune and happiness and bars evil spiritsAs the group enters the courtyard, the bride, veiled with a big and thick brocade comes out to meet them. The party is “blocked” by the bride’s girl-friends, singing folk songs that mean to dare them to come. The male party has to reply in songs. Then the two parties make movements pretending to throw water on one another. This means the bridegroom has to overcome obstacles in order to get to the bride.After that, the male party is allowed into the house. The groom alone has to cover his head with a coat and perform the feet cleansing ritual under a shaman’s guidance, after which he enters an empty room because the bride is already hidden away as the customs require.Meanwhile, the representatives of the two parties and the go-betweens perform rituals at the ancestral altar. Then the parties sing the suitable repartee songs in front of the guests and villagers.At a good hour, usually 10 o’clock in the evening, the two parties perform the wedding ceremony in which the major rite is chasing away evil spirit with torches so it will not disturb the happiness of the newlyweds.The next morning, the bridegroom prays to the ancestors at the altar and offers wine to the grandparents and parents and the attending guests. Then he goes home alone.When the groom is gone, the bride in traditional wedding dress comes out to be greeted by the two parties, her face hidden behind a hand fan. The Yao believe that leaving a bride’s face open may lead to bad luck in her future family life.A man of the bridegroom’s party puts the coat the groom used the previous day on the bride’s head. Then the bridegroom’s party sings the “asking-for-her-hand” song. After that, the shaman, bridesmaids, groomsmen and kinsfolks follow the bride to her new home. The procession includes an orchestra of drums, blowpipes and cymbals  that plays emotional and funny songs along the way. The colorful wedding dress of the bride stands out among the predominantly green scenery.According to the customs, this procession must arrive at the groom’s at about 5 to 6 in the afternoon. On the courtyard, a yellow coat is put on the bride’s head amidst greetings from the groom’s clan. The groom comes out, and together with the bride he performs rites at the ancestral altar. The shaman reads incantations, and the ancestors grant the young couple their blessings and words of wisdom. The young couple respectfully lift a glass of wine, take a sip, and kowtow to the elders in the clan.The newlyweds are congratulated and blessed by the clan, villagers and guests, some of whom may come from faraway. The air is full of happiness and good will. Following the rituals is a lavish feast, full of laughter, songs and dances.The Yao minority has about 800,000 people mostly living in the Ha Giang, Tuyen Quang and Lang Son provinces of the Northern highlands. The Yao ethnicity consists of many groups such as Red Yao, Yao Tien, Yao Cooc Mun, Tight Pants Yao, Yao O Giang, Yao Cooc Ngang, White Yao, Yao Thanh Y, Yao Ao Zai etc. Yao culture is  old and very rich, especially that of the White Yao.